There is a time for everything… a time to grieve, a time to heal
Resources
Because of the secrecy and shame that surrounds abortion, women and men
suffer in silence, depriving themselves of the comfort and support that are
needed to grieve and heal their loss. Following are resources to educate and
support women, men and teens who have experienced abortion as well as those
who care for them.
Websites
Rachel's Vineyard
Founded by Dr. Theresa Burke, a pioneer in post abortion trauma, Rachel's
Vineyard offers resources to renew, rebuild and redeem hearts broken by
abortion. Weekend retreats offer a supportive, confidential and
non-judgmental environment where women and men can express, release and
reconcile painful emotions and begin the process of restoration, renewal and
healing.
Fatherhood Forever
If you are a man who has been struggling with the emotions of a past
abortion experience, Fatherhood Forever Foundation, Inc. was created to
address the issue of abortion and men and to provide inspiration and
restoration to the father involved in an abortion. The organization creates
public awareness to the fact that men are hurt by abortion by providing men
with the resources and tools necessary to heal, and by encouraging and
assisting other organizations to address this issue.
The Guttmacher Institute
This non-profit organization produces a wide range of research and resources
used for public education, policy and program development in matters of
sexual and reproductive health including abortion.
Books and Publications:
Forbidden Grief
Dr Burke is a psychotherapist and founder of Rachel's Vineyard. Dr. Burke
exposes the obstacles in the way of post-abortion healing, reviews the full
range of post-abortion issues and illustrates how we can create a more
understanding and healing society where women will no longer be required to
hide the pain of abortion. (Acorn Books, 2007)
Forgiven and Set Free: A Post-Abortion Bible Study for Women
A post-abortion bible study valuable for either individual women or small
groups. (Baker Books, 1996)
Fatherhood Aborted
Addresses the emotional devastation of men who have been involved in the
abortion of a child. The book includes accounts of men's personal
experiences with abortion. (Tyndale House, 2001)
Healing a Father's Heart
A post abortion bible study valuable for either individual men or small
groups. (Baker Books, 1996)
No One Told Me I Could Cry
Written with love and compassion for teens. Tells the story of a young
girl's abortion trauma and her inability to cope. This book clarifies why
abortion is a secret sorrow, harder for teens, and what happens when the
emotions surrounding the abortion are buried. A chapter on how abortion
affects young fathers is included. A valuable resource not only for teens,
but also pregnancy centers, libraries, teachers and parents. (Life Cycle
Books Ltd., 2001)
Audio/Video
A Miracle in You by: Michael John Poirier
Singer and songwriter, Michael John Poirier, together with his wife Mary
Poirier have dedicated their ministry to the holy family. Their message of
hope and consolation is beautifully conveyed through Michael John's music.
Download A Miracle in You (MP3
WMA).
Beyond Regret
This video tells the powerful stories of several women and one man who
overcame post-abortion grief and depression and learned to forgive
themselves and others. The program includes Christian scripture interspersed
throughout. (Paraclete Video Productions)
Are all women and men hurt by abortion?
All we can say for certain is that many are severely
impacted by their experience
including:
- Post traumatic stress disorder
- Inability to bond with and love children
- Promiscuity
- Ruined relationships
- Repeat abortions
- Substance abuse
- Self-destructive behaviors
- Eating disorders
- Spiritual alienation
Sadly, people may believe that no one will understand and that God could never forgive. But recovery and healing is possible!